Social Graces
The Art of Balinese Etiquette: Navigating Social Graces
While Japanese culture places a high value on formal respect and non-verbal cues, Balinese etiquette is rooted in communal harmony and religious observance. The Balinese are famously warm and patient, but understanding their customs demonstrates a deeper level of respect.
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The Right Hand, Always
According to Made Wijaya, a late and respected authority on Balinese culture: “The left hand is considered impure. Always use your right hand to give or receive anything, including money, and to touch another person.” This is a critical rule to observe.
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Head And Feet
The head is considered the most sacred part of the body. Refrain from touching anyone’s head, even a child’s. Conversely, the feet are considered the lowest and most unclean part, so avoid pointing your feet at people or sacred objects.
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Greetings
The most common greeting is a simple smile and a slight nod. The formal Hindu greeting, placing the palms together at chest level (the sembah), is also appreciated, especially when interacting with priests or elders.
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Sacred Spaces: Temple Dress Code and Conduct
Bali is home to over 20,000 temples, or pura. Entry requires a sarong and a selendang — a temple sash tied around the waist. These items are non-negotiable. If you do not have your own, they are available for rent at the entrance of all major temples, such as Pura Luhur Uluwatu or Pura Tirta Empul, for a nominal fee, typically IDR 10,000 to 25,000.
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Sitting On The Floor
When sitting on the floor, it is polite for men to sit cross-legged and for women to kneel with their legs together to one side. These small gestures are signs of a culturally aware visitor making the Tokyo to Bali transition thoughtfully.
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Tipping
The culture of tipping differs from Japan. While not mandatory, it is customary to leave a small tip for exceptional service. In restaurants that do not include a service charge, a tip of 5-10% is appreciated. For hotel porters, IDR 10,000-20,000 per bag is appropriate, and for private drivers, a tip of IDR 50,000-100,000 for a full day’s service is a generous gesture of gratitude.